Religion and Dating

The topic of religion is a touchy one especially when it comes to dating.  It seems that family and friends both always have something to say when it comes to who your dating and what their religion is.

Religion often does not come up until later in the relationship, when things are becoming monogamous, but to some religion is very important and if the religious commonality is not there, it may be a deal breaker.

When dating someone with a different religion, we often tend to raise a lot of questions.  What will our families think? How will we raise our children? How will holidays be spent? These are all fair questions to ask, and you need to ask yourself if you are comfortable dating someone who believes and practices life differently than you.

I have seen many odd matches, Jahovah witnesses with agnostics, Christians with agnostics, Pagan with Christians, Atheists with Jewish, the list goes on.

Before getting too seriously involved with a potential mate, slow down and think about how important your religion is to you.  Seriously think whether you are comfortable or not proceeding with someone who does not practice the same religion as you.

It is not always a bad thing dating someone with a different religion. It can establish your beliefs more and even open your partner up to new things. But, normally in the long run, it equals trouble. A lot of the time, at least in the Christian world, the person who is Christian grows away from God and more into their boyfriend's living beliefs; sometimes girlfriend.

I suggest thinking about it and make a decision before anyone gets attached.  We all want to change people, but sometimes this is just not possible.  Don't Date 'em to Change 'em.

It is great to take your time and explore the relationship.  But if you know for sure that it is a deal breaker, don't get too serious.  You may end up feeling attached to a relationship you did not want to or you may end up breaking someone's heart.

Be open but cautious and if you have any specific questions about this topic, please ask.