Don't Date 'em to Change 'em

People, in particular women, tend to date men thinking that change is an option.  Although miracles do happen my readers, don't count on it. Changing a man is a difficult task. As we are, they are stuck in their ways.  It takes patience and persistence to persuade a man, and most of the time that won't even do it.

Although, this is a broad blog post about change, this week I'm going to be breaking it down for you per day. For example, tomorrow's post will be on changing a man's religion, etc.  So that way we will get a full course on Don't Date 'em to Change 'em.

We all have a so called check list...and sometimes those are bad and sometimes those are good.  But over the checklist we have this subconscious list that I like to call: Deal Breakers.  Deal Breakers can be anything from not having the right religion, or to the person not wanting kids when you do.  We all have deal breakers and my advice to you is if the person does not meet your criteria as far as what your deal breakers are, take it as a sign and move on. Don't waste your time and don't waste theirs.

One of my major rules is to never date someone to change who or what they are.  There can be things to be improved upon of course.  Growth of course.  But there are certain things that you cannot influence change on.

If a guy watches porn, he watches porn.  If a guy enjoys McDonald's, he enjoys McDonald's.  If a guy is atheist, he is atheist.   THE CHANCES OF YOU CHANGING THESE THINGS ARE NOT IN YOUR FAVOR.

Move to the next guy. Move on my readers.

Tomorrow I go over dating people who have a different religion then you.  Look forward to it.